5 Ways to Leverage Your Unique Strengths as an Introverted Leader

* This blog post is adapted from a lunch and learn session I facilitated earlier this year.

Introduction

I am a proud introvert. In fact, I am a card-carrying member of the less than 3 percent of the world population which belongs to the INFJ club. Candidly, however, being an introvert has posed several unique challenges for me as a leader. Maybe you can relate?

It's noteworthy to reinforce that leadership is not determined by your formal title. Or how many people report up to you in the org chart. You can be a leader as an individual contributor and you can lead from anywhere. Being a leader is about the influence you wield and whether others are willing (as opposed to being compelled) to follow you. Before we dive in, let's get clear about some important terminology.

Distinguishing Between Extroversion and Introversion

Simon Sinek is an author and inspirational speaker on business leadership. Susan Cain is the author of the bestselling book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking and a leading expert on introverted leadership. Borrowing from Cain's work, Sinek explains an extrovert derives their energy from the outside. From external factors, particularly social interaction. Imagine an extrovert is a piggy bank. An extrovert wakes up each morning with no coins in their bank. With every social interaction they experience, they receive a coin, or a deposit. By the end of the day, an extrovert's bank is full and they feel enriched.

Introverts, by contrast, derive their energy from within. They are energized by their inner world; they tend to expend or lose energy from social interaction. Returning to the piggy bank metaphor, an introvert wakes up in the morning with a certain number of coins. Each social interaction they experience acts as a withdrawal. Because introverts spend a coin (or more) with each interaction, by the end of the day they are left feeling depleted.

Shyness typically involves a fear of negative judgment. People who are shy generally want to engage with others but are afraid to do so. They may be self-conscious or feel inhibited by others. Introverts, however, have little difficulty socializing. They simply prefer to do so in small groups or in more intimate settings. Or, sometimes, not at all.

Cain explains most people fall somewhere on the spectrum. No one is 100 percent introvert or extrovert all of the time. Instead, most people exhibit a combination of both traits to varying degrees. Some people may be more balanced while others may lean more strongly towards one end of the spectrum than the other. Cain emphasizes, however, being more introverted than extroverted does not prevent anyone from displaying extroverted characteristics when the situation calls for it.

Not all introverts are the same, though.

The STAR Model: Four Shades of Introversion

Cheek's model helps us understand the nuances of introverted individuals. Many introverts may be a mix of two or more types, rather than demonstrating one type over the others. Click the arrows to explore each type's characteristics.

Examples of Introverted Leaders

The record is replete with examples of highly successful introverted leaders. Here are just a few:

Notice that these figures are leaders in diverse arenas, including politics, business, sports, entertainment, and social activism.

Common Traits of an Introvert

These are general traits of introverts. They are not necessarily true of all introverts all the time.

Introverts:

• Are careful thinkers who look before they leap

• Are comfortable with independent thought and action

• Need solitude to balance out social time

• Remain a steady, balanced presence during turbulent times

• Have a capacity for active listening and connecting with people on an intimate level

• Have a desire for focus and to develop a depth of understanding/mastery over a topic

• Usually only speak when they have something to say, after they’ve had a chance to process information internally

• Feel at their most alive and most energized in quieter situations

• Have an active inner life, imagination, and a strong creative streak

• Possess sharp observational skills

• Are willing to put other people and their vision in the spotlight

Let's discuss how introverted leaders can capitalize on these traits.

Leverage Your Unique Strengths as an Introverted Leader

#1: Lean into your excellent listening skills.

Introverts tend to have excellent listening skills. Not only do they listen attentively to what the other person is saying, they are also adept at picking up on subtle changes in the speaker’s nonverbal communication and body language that others may miss. Such as changes in their voice, facial expression, and posture. Introverts are generally comfortable with silence and don’t feel a need to fill empty space with words, which also makes them excellent listeners. Introverts will often reflect back to the speaker what they heard to confirm their understanding of what was said. They also practice empathic listening to place themselves in the other person’s shoes.

Because of their excellent listening skills, introverts are able to gain the trust of their teammates and colleagues. Introverts make sound decisions because they consider all angles of an issue. Further, people are more inclined to follow introverted leaders because they sense they are genuinely being listened to.

#2: Lean into your deliberative thought process.

As an introvert, you value solitude. It gives you the space you need to think clearly. Introverts tend to process information carefully with great attention to detail. In conversations, they are less likely to interrupt others while they are speaking. And, before they speak, they will carefully consider what they say, the words they will use, and how they will express themselves.

An introvert's deliberative thought process enables them to make sound decisions based on logic rather than solely upon emotion. Introverts are less susceptible to “peer pressure” and are equipped to make decisions without being easily swayed by others around them. Introverts are guided by their own values; they make difficult decisions through careful analysis without feeling a need for social approval.

Studies have shown introverts also perform better at problem-solving. When you’re introverted, you tend to process information more carefully than others. This attention to detail often leads introverts to find better solutions because they have invested considerable time in weighing their options.

#3: Lean into your ability to build relationships.

As a natural consequence of being an excellent listener, introverts have a keen ability to build relationships. They take the time to get to know others and understand their needs. Introverts tend to have high emotional intelligence. This is because they are in tune with their own emotions and the emotions of others. They are good at reading people and understanding how they’re feeling. This makes them better able to respond effectively to the needs of those around them. They prefer in-depth conversations over small talk. They also value inclusivity, wanting to ensure no one is being overlooked. Introverts are generally humble. They are content to work behind the scenes and don’t need to be in the limelight.

An introvert's ability to build relationships enables them to respond effectively to the needs of those around them. Introverts can have focused conversations with their teammates and colleagues to learn about their skills, passions, and strengths. They can draw productivity from anyone on their team, working effectively with extroverts and introverts. They keep extroverts grounded and motivate introverts to engage. Introverted leaders accept differences among team members which strengthens the dynamics and cohesiveness of their team. Last, introverts are not threatened when others shine and they genuinely celebrate their successes.

#4: Lean into your natural creativity.

As mentioned earlier, many introverts have an active inner life and imagination. Comfortable in moments of quiet solitude, they easily tap into their intuition. In fact, solitude is a natural incubator for introverts' best creativity. Creativity is not limited to artistic ability. Introverts also recognize creativity isn’t confined to brainstorming sessions and can happen in times of quiet contemplation.

Solitude and contemplation afford introverts the freedom to think outside the box. With freedom to think and make decisions without external pressures or stress. Introverts know how to create an environment that encourages innovation and creativity. They know how to provide space and autonomy for team members to explore new ideas and experiment with different approaches.

#5: Lean into your ability to remain calm.

Introverts have a calm demeanor and don’t get frazzled as easily. Because they draw their energy from within, they're able to work with lower stimulation. And tune out external noise and distractions.

Interestingly, this enables introverts to help others feel more at peace in their presence. The low-key personality of introvert leaders provides reassurance to their peers and teammates. They are generally able to maintain their composure during tense moments. They think clearly and make decisions quickly during a crisis. Introverts also create a quiet, peaceful environment where they can do their best work. This allows them to focus on what’s important in the moment and avoid getting side-tracked.

Other Ways Introverts Can Be More Assertive

1. Believe in your awesomeness.

2. Talk about your ideas during meetings.

3. Seek opportunities outside your comfort zone that showcase your strengths.

4. Remember that proper preparation prevents poor performance.

5. Exhibit confident body language.

6. Share your accomplishments in a way authentic to you.

7. Expand your professional network to continue building connections.

Something to Think About...

1. What can extroverted leaders do more of to capitalize on the strengths of the introverts on their teams?

2. Many suggest that the most effective leaders are charismatic. What does charisma look like for introverts? How can introverts exhibit executive presence in ways authentic to them?

3. In what ways has being an introvert helped you throughout your career? In what ways has it posed obstacles?

4. Think of a recent workplace challenge. How did you tap into the 5 introvert “superpowers” discussed above to address it? Looking back, what, if anything, would you do differently?

5. What is one thing you find difficult to do as an introvert at work? How will you address it to be successful?

6. What opportunity can you pursue in the next 30 days to demonstrate your unique leadership capabilities?

Conclusion

You don't need to be an extrovert to be an effective and successful leader. Lean into your unique strengths as an introvert to make a lasting impact at work and beyond.

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